This is an old term the bride's grandmother used when planning social events. For men, this means jacket, no tie. For ladies, a colorful maxi or midi dress. As long as you look good, feel good, and are able to dance all night!

For ladies, think sundresses, floral prints, and light fabrics. For men, slacks paired with a button-down or collared shirt.

If using GPS, guests should use the address for the Danforth University Center: 6475 Forsyth Blvd, St. Louis, MO 63105. Enter the parking garage at the corner of Forsyth Blvd. & Wallace Dr. Park closest to the North Elevator (this is the first elevator you see when you pull in). Take the North Elevator to Level 1. Immediately exit the building, and Graham Chapel will be directly to your right.

We warmly invite our out-of-town guests to join us for a farewell brunch at the Saint Louis Zoo. Feel free to drop in anytime between 9:30 AM and 11:30 AM. Brunch will be hosted by John McFarland ("Yohnnie"). Casual and comfortable attire is encouraged—especially if you’d like to explore the zoo afterward!